Studies show that the earlier fathers become involved with their children, the better chance kids have of doing well in school and being socially adept. But what determines fatherly involvement? New research suggests a mother's response to her partner's parenting in the earliest days of childhood may have a long-term impact on his role in children's lives.
Ohio State psychology professor Sarah Schoppe-Sullivan interviewed first-time parents before the birth of their baby and observed them when their children were three to four months old.
She found that fathers who were criticized or corrected by their partners were less likely to spend quality time with their children. Meanwhile, complimenting the father's parenting and setting aside time for him to be alone with the baby were linked to stronger parental engagement.
ABSTRACT: Maternal gatekeeping, coparenting quality, and fathering behavior in families with infants.